What Does A Sex Coach Do?
So…You’re a Sex Coach? What Do You Do?
Let’s talk sex! Don’t you want to have the best sex you can have? Have you noticed that there is this silence or nervous laughter when someone brings up the topic of sex? Most of us have sex, or have been in relationships and want to feel fulfilled in what and whom we pursue. Most of us were never taught how to date or how to have a relationship, much less how to build intimacy or how to have great sex! You don’t want to hurt your partner’s feelings if they are doing something you don’t enjoy or it’s not the way you like it, so we stay tightlipped, which doesn’t help improve your sex life. Of course, you can learn with each experience you are involved in, but wouldn’t it be great if you had a quicker and more successful learning curve? Being more educated about sexuality can lead to less inhibition, more fun, and better orgasms! Don’t try to figure it out as you go, luckily there are sex coaches who can make the process much easier for you.
So, what is a sex coach? A sex coach is a trained professional who works with individuals and or couples in regard to all aspects of sexuality. A sex coach provides people with a safe, non-judgmental place where they communicate openly and receive support, advice, have a confidant, a cheerleader and a sex-pert in their back pocket!
What do we do? A Sex Coach offers guidance, education, emotional support and can help you identify your goals, individually or as a couple. We discuss ways you can make positive changes or find out what is keeping you from moving forward. Creating an action plan is an important step because without action, you get can get stuck in a rut. A Sex Coach can provide emotional support, suggest ways of thinking, activities and home assignments, which are designed to help you to get to the next step. We keep you motivated, give you a non-judgmental safe place to discuss your issues, while keeping you grounded and forward moving to reach your goals.
Sex coaching is effective with most sexual issues or concerns like mismatched sex drives, low libido, sex and aging, inhibitions, orgasmic concerns, erectile dysfunction, alternative lifestyles, the LGBTQ community and more! Sex coaching may not be meant for people who need immediate work or who have critical concerns as a result of having suffered abuse or trauma in regards to sexuality, but sex coaching can be a great tool to help people reach their full sexual potential, especially after they have processed through any deep-rooted issues.
How is a Sex Coach different than a Sex Therapist? In general, Sex Coaching is goal oriented and forward moving, while therapy usually deals in deep-seated emotional issues. A therapist is a licensed practitioner who usually has a degree in psychotherapy or social work and focuses on treating people with unresolved trauma, high levels of dysfunction or on couples with deep-seated emotional challenges which negatively impact their relationship.
Alternatively, a Sex Coach is trained and certified and has more freedom than a therapist to be creative in the process and do things “out of the box”. Sex Coaches can reach people online anywhere around world and can help clients chose sex toys and products that are right for the individual or couple. There are even “hands on” experiential coaches, who don’t just talk with clients, but who instruct their clients how to reach their full potential in a more physical way.
Sex coaching can be beneficial in many ways. We can educate, enhance your relationships and find fun and active ways for you to enhance your sexuality! Don’t put off today what can bring you more happiness tomorrow. Take the first step to spice up your relationship and bring yourself more pleasure with the knowledge to be your best sexual self.